Regardless of the form of swinging lifestyle a couple is engaged in, the common rule that runs through all swinging relationships is that 'no means no' and that any behavior that brings discomfort or crosses any boundaries that the couples may set is anathema to the lifestyle.
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Swingers take an alternate route the above, however it is one that can engender more trust and honesty than traditional monogamous relationships do. The traditional modality of a relationship entails the promise to be faithful and sexually exclusive to a single partner for the duration of the relationship. To the majority of people brought up in western societies in the last century, a couple engaged in a relationship that does not espouse monogamy is an oxymoron at best, hypocritical at worst.